Saturday, January 30, 2010

Child Abduction

Read it: Two women lose babies despite legal custody

http://www.malaysianbar.org.my/legal/general_news/two_women_lose_babies_despite_legal_custody.html

You get a black-and-white, court-certified, law-abiding document and still you're not guaranteed justice?

Seriously??!! what are we turning into? and What are the tax-payers tolerating? If you're paying for something, you are and should be entitled to optimum service. So the mother and grandmother have lost their children due to the negligence of certain parties. What next? Who's gonna pay the price? How is this going to be rectified? or IS IT going to be rectified?

More importantly, whose gonna be responsible for these mothers' plight?

Read up, Speak up and Wise up coz you could be the next Farah or Santhakumari.

Who knows?

just another Thaipusam

My first year NOT going to Batu Caves for Thaipusam. =(

But other than that, my grandma's knee op went fine. Yaay!!
She's now feeling lotsa pain on her operated knee and also needs to endure physiotherapy for god-knows-how-long. She's a pretty strong woman, my grandma. I know she'll be walking again in no time, but it's all the others that are worried.

Care-taker stress kicking in to all of them. Sigh!

**ok happy thoughts!**

My uncle is coming back from Qatar on Tuesday!! =D
And the boyf is going to see the mom on Monday. I'm a bundle of nerves though i don't show it. I really hope everything goes on fine.

NO! I'm not getting married, that'll be a good 7-9 years more. but for now, i'm having fun every day and i'm going to sleep with huge smiles plastered.

Spread the L.O.V.E.

Muahxxx!

Thursday, January 28, 2010

The Fish

I'm here to tell you a story of a fish. Not just any fish, but a gold fish, living in a pond with 9 japanese coys.

One day, the owner noticed something was off with the fish. It was growing at an abnormal rate, in an abnormal way. she could almost see the veins on it's stomach! Expanded to the point of bursting! So the owner worried and fretted till it consumed all of her thoughts for the entire day. She sat by the pond just looking at the fish feeling helpless.

Finally she calls the 'pond man' and he says maybe it's eating too much. cut the food supply (they can feed on the left over debris of food). The owner does that. = no difference.

then the owner thinks it's pregnant, and she fusses over the fish trying to make a comfortable spot for it to lay eggs. (HAHAHA!)I tried to help, of course and gave her suggestions on which plant to pull out of our mother's garden, and also told her which rock in the pond to put it behind. but apparently thats not help enough (sheesh!)

after a few days, no eggs, no babies and still big fat fish.

Then the owner's mother decides to call the 'pond-man' and he comes and says that the fish is suffering from a terminal illness. All the owner could do now is wait and pray.

One morning, owner comes down and after taking a peek at the pond screams, "Gone it's dead! it's finished" The pond was red. The owner's mom had actually put in a pond-tonic (to make it clean or sumn. Hahaha! the fish was still alive. but the owner was laughed at the whole day. =D

Now, finally the gold fish has past away. Let me save the "HOW did it die". Believe me you don't wanna know!

If this is happening to your fish, IT's NOT preggers.







R.I.P
Gold Fish
2009-1010

Wednesday, January 13, 2010

!@$#%^$%&&*^

I've had many things on my mind this last coupla' days.
Some good, some funny, some bad and yes downright stupid!

and to those who care, yes it's official! :) i'm elated and 2010 already looks better.

later days!

Saturday, January 2, 2010

Notification

Due to my gatal-tanganess, i fidgeted with the settings and have lost all your blog addresses to link on my page.

Could all of you, (u know who you are :P) send me your links at puveshini@wao.org.my.

Really sorry for the trouble and thank you.

Toodles.

Friday, January 1, 2010

To 2010

1st of Jan 2010. I finally have some time alone in front of the computer away from the prying eyes of managers and family members. As i look back i realize that 2009 has been a pretty eventful year and i personally look forward to 2010 for more such experiences.

So...wrapping up 2009, this is recap of the year and also my wish list for 2010.

Life: The past year witnessed my transition from a student to the employment field. From old friends to new ones, breaking free from old believes and adopting new ones and also experiences that shattered my ego and made me realize that rough patches teach you to appreciate and be thankful for your blessings. In short, I've grown as a person and although I'll still consider myself WIP, I'm happy with the progress so far.
WISH-LIST 2010: To continue growing and learning and living with all my heart and soul.

Friends: I've kept my old friends and also made new ones. My affiliation with WAO has exposed me to a new array of people with similar sentiments and believes about my area of work and it has been really rewarding; feels almost like homecoming. As for the old ones, they'll always be the ones i let my guard down with, the ones i get to LOL and be really stupid and at times blur. ;) To my reaaaaalllllyy old friends, we've survived for more than 10 years, i don't see what'll stop us now.
WISH-LIST: To meet and spend time with friends old and new more often without letting work get in the way.

Family: The number is still the same, the people are older, but still rocking. Always a bundle of support and nerves ( they think TOO much). Thanks for letting me make my own decisions then and now AND more importantly for having faith in them and me. Even when I don't.
WISH LIST: To have more patience and be more appreciative of each and everyone.

Education: After 14 years of hitting the books, I finally graduated with a Bachelors (HON) in Psychology. I've said it before and I'll say it again, Psychology has not only been a field of study but it has molded me into the person I am today. It makes up my believes, my interaction, my observation of others, my philosophy of LIFE etc. Almost a religion. For that i thank my lecturers, tutors, and friends who stuck by me through it all.
WISH-LIST: To expose myself to diverse areas of study and spread the knowledge around.

Work: Definitely a dream come through. For a girl who spoke about equal rights and practically adored WAO, finding a job there after a very memorable and esteem-boosting interview session with the director, president and manager, seriously..what more could i ask for? It's a great stepping stone and I've met victims, survivors, helpers, activists and all sorts of other people that everyday is not like the last. Work has given me an opp to sponge up information from all areas that interest me and has allowed me to make a difference. From counseling victims, public speaking, report writing, to receiving thank you drawings from kids and events; I know I've been blessed.
WISH-LIST: To gain as much experiences has i can before i move on to my Full time Masters Program.

Love: I've learnt that sometimes you just have to switch off your mind and trust your heart and have faith that everything will turn out fine. To all of you that have been tirelessly listening (and teasing me!) thank you for your time. And to YOU, the cause of it all....thanks for being honest and patient. :)
WISH-LIST: To take every day as it comes and Living every minute to its fullest. ;)

Have a great 2010 everyone.